I need to know

我对你靠甚么赚钱维生没兴趣
但我倒想知道你内心的渴望 你敢不敢梦想自己美梦成真的那一刻？
我对你的年纪没兴趣
但我想知道 你敢不敢像个为爱疯狂的痴心汉那样 勇敢为自己的梦想去冒险？
我对你的月亮星座在哪一宫豪无兴趣
但我想知道 你是否曾经深入自己的悲伤 生命中的各种背叛是否使你心胸更开阔
还是你因为害怕再受伤害而紧闭心扉？
我想知道 你是否能和悲伤共处 而不是一味地只是逃避它或忽视它？
我想知道 你是否能够完全体会自己和他人的喜悦？你是否能够尽情狂舞 心醉神迷地手舞足蹈
完全无视于旁人的眼光 不再有任何矜持
我不再乎你是否对我说了真话 我只想知道 你是否为了诚实对待自己而欺骗他人
你是否能够忍受别人的背叛 而不去背叛自己的灵魂？
我想知道你是否看见万物之美丽 即使它们的样子并不讨喜？
我想知道 你能否和挫败共处 站在高处对着银色的满月大喊：我可以！
你要住在那里 拥有多少的财富 这些我都没有兴趣
但我想知道 在历尽整夜的悲伤 失望和疲惫之后 你是否按时起床为你的孩子准备早餐？
你的经历是什么 读过什么书 我对这些没兴趣
但我想知道 当其它人的垮下来时 能够支撑你的是什么力量？
我想知道 你能否自己独处 即使在空虚的时刻 你也能以独处为乐？

No love, no glory
No hero in her skies

One Year Journey, No Destination In Sight

It has been ONE YEAR, lots of places were visited, lots of activities carried out, lots of weight, experience and knowledge gained and understanding forged.

Places we visited together:
Rendang, Malaysia
Kota Tinggi, Malaysia
Tokyo, Japan
Kawakujiko, Japan
Batam, Indonesia

Places in Singapore that are memorable:
Changi Boardwalk (very happy to revisit the place)
Hort Park (bringing you back very soon)
Botanic Gardens (very nice lawn and the greenery soothes the heat in Singapore)
La Villa (very good atmosphere for hanging out)
Charcoal (our first meal together)
Tan Tock Seng Hospital (your workplace for almost a year)
Singapore Flyer (well worth the money because I went for it with you)
Upper Seletar Reservoir (nice scenic place)
East Coast Park (one of our favorite places to sit and chill)
The National Library (because you love books)
Marina Barrage (such a beautiful place, its lucky we went before the new Integrated resort was up)
The place with a pretty sail
Bottle Tree Restaurant in Sembawang
Palau Ubin (my first time to the part of the island which is not OBS)
Sentosa Beaches

Restaurants that was memorable (be it for the good food, arguments we had or love we shared):
Japanese Ramen Restuarants (the food is so good and this is where I gained my double chin - will lose it soon)
HK Cafe in Kovan ( we had a small squabble here, but make up real fast)
Charcoal (food was not good, but I heart the place because its the first place we dined at)
Crystal Jade Chinese Restaurant (where we queued up for dinner and the aftermath was very bad)

Experiences and Knowledge Gained:
Never had I run a marathon with such an ardent supporter - Tokyo Marathon 2009 (I can do it again)
The movies we shared together and the warmth I have in my arms.
Medical Knowledge
Learning to ride a bike, fly a kite and take a bus to Malaysia.
Understanding your character and taking time to convince you

This post is dedicated to Miss Ong Aili, girlfriend and fiancee of 1 year now.
Thank you for being such a wonderful, lovely, bubbly, beautiful and thoughtful girlfriend.

Weipeng


ps. the journey is estimated to go on for at least 60 years, WOOHOO

Dealing with a YES/NO GF

Well, looking at the set of pictures, any frustrations are all gone. It's all worth it.

Nonono. I was saying about what used to be. Now, the whole issue is off the racks. Just like melamine-stained milk.

Shontelle Layne _TSHIRT

Song of the Moment

Keeps ringing on the radio waves, catchy and nice.



Oh. Spoiler. Its a happy ending!!

A day at the beach

A little bit of jam on the way to east coast park. Nowadays, driving a pleasure. Contemplating on changing my car into a sub-wedding car if I get an invite. Dawn to dusk again. Magical transition. Whole new meaning to relaxing in Singapore. You need a rabbit call Bui Kia that is the size of a 3 in 1 printer(Rabbit do not make a noise).

Song of the moment _IM Yours Jason Mraz

Ahhh, this song have to be playing non-stop in my mind. Tune is catchy the chorus is ever repeating itself in my head. Ha. A talent. Above: Official Music video of the single.

Sunset In Singapore

Changi Boardwalk, at the end of the road at Changi Village. 2.2km board walk, kelong.. The only I know that anyone could get SUNSET in Singapore. Riding away from busy Singapore. Time to smell the roses.

Always Bon Jovi Cats in the Cradle

Got to post this entry and lock it in before July commences. June is a good month for me and this was taken by my Sony Ericsson K850i on 27 June 2008.

Location: IndoChine, Wisma Atria
Band: Cats in the Cradle.

Of Endorphins and Serotonin

What happens in a relationship and why does passion die off?

It could be because of the brain, the single most important sex organ:


Endorphins is a neurochemical that can be produced at the frequent presence of a loved one.
Endorphins are a group of chemicals produced by the hypothalamus and the pituitary gland in the brain. As they travel through the bloodstream, endorphins act as natural painkillers and create a sense of well-being.

Sense of Euphoria

A product of endorphins, this creates the 'high' that many people experience when they first fall in love.

Obsessive behavior

Love causes serotonin levels in the brain to drop, causing obsessive behavior, researchers at the University of London have found. It also increases production of cortisol, which can cause high blood pressure and loss of sleep.

The Notebook Movie

Hmmm, never too late to review a movie.

The Notebook is a release in 2004 by New Line Cinemas adapted on the novel, The Notebook, by Nicholas Spark.

Movie Plot/ Synopsis

The movie starts by having an old gentleman reading to his companion from a old notebook. It depicts a beautiful tale of a set of teenagers, Allie and Noah, engaging in a lovely summer romance. They had to part because of differences and objections from Allie's upper-class mother.
Reading to Allie


Really touched when Noah wrote a letter to Allie everyday for a year without any reply.That is 365 letters but Allie never get them at once. After a year, Noah stopped writing letter.

Noah was recruited in to army and Allie pursued her studies. Noah went into World War II. Coming back from the War, Noah lost his father. Noah's father had left him his dream house. A dream house that Noah rebuilt to the exact specifications that Allie had wanted. It was really a torn down, old house with a lakeside view.

Just as when Allie was in a "perfect" relationship with a military officer of a good background. Allie saw the news of Noah and the dream house. Allie could not forget and went to seek Noah. Only at this time, then Allie realized that Noah had not give her up. Only then does Allie get back the HUGE bundle of letters from her mother, who has been keeping it from her.
Young Allie with her bundle of 365 Letters

As the old gentleman was reading to his companion, its becomes apparent that the old lady suffering from Alzheimer is awaken by the story and for a short moment remembers that the old gentlemen reading from the notebook is Noah.

Towards the end of the movie, it is clear that Allie finally chose Noah over the wealthy businessman that she was engaged to. They had 4 kids but she could not remember any.
Noah and Allie reunited after the World War, and Allie making a choice.

Quotes from the movie

Anne: She is out foolin' around with that boy until two o'clock in the morning and it has got to stop! I didn't spend seventeen years of my life raising a daughter and giving her EVERYTHING, so she could throw it away on a summer romance!
Young Allie: [Screaming] DADDY!
Anne: She will wind up with her heart broken or pregnant! Now he's a nice boy, but he's...
Young Allie: He's WHAT? He is what? Tell me!
Anne: He is trash! Trash! Trash! Not for you!

Young Allie: Now, say you're a bird.
Young Noah: If you're a bird, I'm a bird.

Why This Blog Entry

1. Because I see the story of a friend being forced to leave his girlfriend, someone whom he loves a lot because the mother rejects the whole relationship. (See quote 1 above)

2. Remember Titanic's , You jump, I jump? Ain't it so similar from quote 2?

3. Simply because the story is beautiful.

Christmas spirit

Oh..back in October, I was in Taiwan, Taipei and come November, Wanlin was in Singapore. To catch on the Christmas Spirit. We were at Vivio City to celebrate Kit's Birthday. Really, this is the one half body length shot we had. Seems like the next time I see her again will be some years ahead.

Take care. Friend..

Intentions remain Intentions, unless

Quote of the Day - Failure

Failure is not an option. It is a privilege reserved for those who try.

Author Unknown

David Tao Concert in Taipei

Just as you would thought that the whole world given up on you. Fret not. Believe and you will LIVE your DREAM.

I always wanted to watch David Tao Live. Been a fan of his since I was introduced to his music in 1998. The only concerts that he is having now are all based in Mainland, China. Last year, David Tao "LOVE CAN" World Tour concert, he really skipped Singapore and only went to Malaysia. This year, 2007, DT is having in concert in Taiwan, Taipei on the 26,27 October.

Asked a few friends to come along with me to Taipei for his concert, but it is really crazy to go out of Singapore for a concert. Again, I want to say, THIS ain't any concert, ITS Hennessy ARTISTRY 軒尼詩 陶吉吉1.2.3我們都是木頭人. Well, I really do not find any english name for the concert, but the name of the name seems commercial and edgy to me.

Really have to thank Wanlin for wanting to come to watch the concert with me. Well, she is residing in Taiwan, so she will play hostess this time round. And I'm damn bloody touched to have her say she will pick me up from the airport in Taipei. This friend is a keeper.

I will do a review of the DT Taipei Concert after the concert.

KTV session

I called Taiwan but failed to find someone to go with me to David Tao Concert in Taipei, Taiwan on the 26/27 Oct. Of course, I could really go to Taiwan alone and I think I will enjoy the concert too. Its really part of me to want to see David Tao LIVE and share it with someone, because a lot of his songs are so special to me.

Now, 30 September was special, I meet up with Terry and his fiancee, Wenxin, managed to call long-lost friend Zyn out. She was really excited about congratulating the couple on their plans to have each other for the rest of their life.

We had dinner at Sun with Moon restaurant at wheelock place, this place, Terry claims that usually it takes 3 days advance booking to get table. Oh, the food is still good but not as popular as last time. They have a new branch at Central Mall too. Good food, considering it turn Zyn, someone who detest and never like sushi, to fall prey to peer pressure and actually LIKED the swordtail sashimi.
The grill oysters with bacon. Delicious.

After which, we went to 10 dollars KTV at chinatown for a hearty session of KTV. the crowd was small and comfortable. I had 2 great singers with me and I really enjoyed myself. Suddenly. 孫燕姿. I feel so much for the song. Zyn's rendition of the song was damn bloody good.

張惠妹- 人質 live
柯有伦 - (零）- Damn HIGH...healthy without any alcohol. Thank you, brudda Terry, always good to be singing with you around. No wonder, I think this must be one of the many reasons why Wenxin is so stuck to you. Kudos.
柯有綸 - 兩敗俱傷 - Wow, the female lead attractive man. Now, I say Alan Kuo's music is really underrated. I appeal for him. Support his music.

At the end of the day, I was really touched because it was a long time someone called and asked if I got home safely. Thank you. I appreciated it.

Birthday Bash

Happy Birthday to the Virgos..



Yuanzheng and Moi Celebration at K-Garden



Thiambao Birthday Celebration at Barstop

Hope Torture

The best thing one can do for someone who loves her is of course loving her, loving each other. right? To reciprocate and love each other.

But if she doesn't love him, she shouldn't leave any hopes for him because even the smallest hope can be a tremendous torture to him. Now this is HOPE TORTURE. Kill off any amount of hope no matter how small and the girl may be doing a credit to the guy.

Wrap up for August 2007

Hmmm, highlights for the month of August. Was ill for slightly more than a week early august after visiting the night safari on the 4th.

Had a blog entry which I believed touched a few hearts. Had a long awaited mini holiday to KL_Genting in Mid August.

I missed out a blog entry dedicated for this trip. But well, I think I made some people turn their heads for the ladies with this collage. I really like the KL Twin Towers. They are beautiful. I never liked the Taipei 101 building when I was there back in May.

Genting is really a place for relaxation and there's about it. The food is expensive and all of us don't seem to want to spend much in Malaysia. I sure did enjoyed my Wu Bai and China Blue concert over in Genting when Wu Bai executed his dancing moves.

Come to the closing of August, its my birthday, like usual, I got many many friends wishing me a Happy Birthday and I truly appreciate all your well-wishes. Never really celebrated my birthday, lest having my family sing a birthday song for me and my mum cook mee suan for me. Thank you mum.

The very next day, try as I want, I could not make it to the proposal site for Terry and Wenxin. A look at their videos here and it was really touching. You would find 2 videos with the links and there is really another one on youtube but it is supposed to be a private video.

Just today, I was made messenger for my friends. I had to inform B that A could not attend a function with B because A had to be working on Saturday. Complicated right, thinking that A is worried that B will be alone for the function but did not want to go. I got myself confused narrating this bit.

Terry's Wedding Proposal

Terry...Brother YOU did it and she say "Yes". A resounding yes. Power! But I have to complain la, you set the standard so high man, it would be hard to plan for another wedding proposal, ermmm, I mean our own ones. I reached Sentosa late, missing the proposal procedures and then the guys were asking me when I getting married. All seems to be very inspired by you. I brushed them off, hey, I'm single now.

Okay, to the pictures.

Proposing at the Underwater World in Sentosa.

Proposing with placards, I like this one the most. Its cliche but it is really touching to want to say this to anyone. This is not sweet-nothings, it is the thought of wanting to so with your loved one.

Skipping the you know question. And the answer is...

Aftermath, dinner at Tripizza along Siloso Beach.

Songs of the sea (what used to be Musical fountain) with fireworks and pyrotechnics.

Oh..the couple..Happy Beginning....

Khalil Fong - Traveling Quartet 四人遊

This MV depicts that both the male and female lead are in a very sticky situation. Both of them are attached but it seems that they are still attracted to each other. The lyrics suggests that they will prowl on each other when one is out of their uneasy relationship with their respective boy/girl friends. Ohhhhh.....

Heart-wrenching..Lovers to Strangers..Or Friends to Lovers..